SPIRITUAL MALADY

If at any level you have some proximity to spirituality, there is a probability that you might get excluded and isolated from normal course of life. You shall be declared oversensitive and super emotional. Your survival might become a question mark in the society you are trying to socialize with.  It is not a thing which needs an evidence to prove itself but the situations you might encounter and most preferably the strategy you will adopt for the treatment of such situations shall cause you to get yourself treated like an odds one out.

It has been proven from many studies written by many explorers in this area that those people who pursue on these lines are the unfortunate ones in the eyes of the world and this is somewhat true for the readers analyzing the case study of such person apparently by comparing the historical reactions of that person in such circumstances where it’s application is made. These people are considered disgraced, absurd and goofs.  This is the superficial analysis of the apparent situation and reaction. And this is somewhat correct because what a human eye sees is reality for many people.

But there is another side of the picture which purports that to be successful in the current market there is a popular concept called diplomacy. It runs parallel to the followers and believers of spiritualism. Spirituality demands personal transformation from a person to the religious beliefs, it demands tolerance and many other peace and patience related concepts which the religion teaches us. On the other hand you cannot run your house on the ground of spirituality only. You have to come out of your comfort zone and do the needful to maintain your living. Here come’s the conflict.

 The outer side demands diplomatic standards and strategy’s to be executed for becoming successful where as spiritual standards negate double policy and hypocrisy. It forbids the popular concept of politics in whatever shape and form it comes in the way of an individual’s career path. It demands truth and straightforwardness towards the situations one has to confront with. The difference between these two extreme opposite concepts cause the spiritual malady in an individual’s life. The personal dissonance caused by the conflict hurts that person on both ends and most of the beginners find themselves in a chaos.  This dissonance is a spiritual disease at one end and lack of interpersonal skills at the other end.

However, the reality is that both sides are indispensable for human because you have to live in humans so you  need to have  adequate diplomatic flexibility with you to interact with them effectively and you must need food for your soul and for that you need to inculcate and maintain some spiritual values in you. The solution to this is a question mark and a midway needs to be discovered and implemented to at least find a breathing space for oneself in the environment otherwise the saying that ignorance is blessing can only be praised and stated in this regard and one should maintain one’s stamina strong enough to deal with it.

INSECURITIES

Insecurities occur in a person’s life when there is something which is lacking, for example, I may be feeling insecure because of some deficiency in certain area which I am exposed to and the other people are not aware of that. It may also be closely correlated with the term fear, for example my fears about my life or regarding someone else may make me feel insecure.

The question lies here is  that yes, we know that this phenomena is a reality and is generally found in every human being. Some people are better expressive and are able to exhibit them if these are materialistic. But mostly people suffer from them but they are not aware that either they are going right or wrong and also that what one can do if certain insecurities are prevalent in him or her or what he /she can do if they lie within the bracket of someone else’s insecurity  bracket.

First thing that needs realization in this regard is the acceptance of the fact. That yes, this phenomena is normal as the other positive phenomena’s for example sense of achievement is an implied thing which everyone feels when they encounter with some sort of achievement in any field in which they are working for and is important for them.  Secondly, the thing which is required the most is the solution, that how to deal with them because somehow we all know that these insecurities majorly affect our productivity and decline our performance level. They also affect our life at their full pace.  No doubt the level of effect depends upon the type of insecurity which is generally faced by the people at different level but the fact is that it does affect. It may not affect us at level one, in which we are suppressing it and dealing with the people which lie in the category of incest and that may involve family, relatives, friends etc as a whole the people we know and recognize but it will certainly effect the society in its next level to come and with in the coming years of that person’s life.

The solution of the question that how to deal with these insecurities in the short term lies in our behaviors as for every event or situation that occurs we always have two ways to respond either positively or negatively so one must decide the better way which not only will save him but ultimately will benefit the society. In the long run, we must try to convert our insecurities in our strengths it is the only way to get rid of them. Otherwise these will cause a cannibal affect to occur and will lead us towards destruction. The conversion of one’s insecurities firstly demands the identification of the insecurity which a person is facing and then finding out the possible and convenient ways to overcome it. But over coming will not be the effective way, it is just a one step. We need to process the feelings of insecurities we need to channelize them so that the productive outcomes could be achieved.

Corporeal Death in an Organization

Professionalism always demands from a person to have a suitable and a composed mix of behavioral elements in it along with particular knowledge and skills to perform the role for which one is being hired in an organization. When organizations hire beginners at their initial levels, it requires them to have huge patience to train them and to make them proficient enough to conform to the organizational norms and values. It depends on an individual’s mental temperament and the circumstances prevalent at that time that how swiftly he or she conforms to this.

 As compared to those employees who are in the middle level category in the organizations these new ones require more time for understanding the concept behind compliance to these values and showing all these understandings through their actions. This more time is required not only for the sake of being an active part of the team but also for the transition from being an amateur to professional.

All of this is a normal cycle of anyone’s professional life. But the story lies within it. It is a common trend in the corporate world today that you have to move forward in order to grow and it is a fact. Every organization has its own values and culture, the more time you spend in it the more emotional ties you create in it. All those efforts which you might have faced in order to grow the plant, make you feel hurt and painful when you are detaching the similar roots of the same tree with your own hands and try to adjust them in a new soul. Even not a bigger one yet even one year’s older.

It is the one side of the picture, the second jolt one might encounter after switching keeping in mind the emotional ties, one has already conformed is the disappearance of the familiar faces and mental understanding of the counterparts and many more things. This is not new it might happens to everyone but this is a very sensitive and sentimental time which causes transition of your death in ABC organization and your Birth in XYZ organization. The trauma of the death and the happiness of your Birth both make you feel weird.

Anyhow time has a dual effect on a human’s life. It is the cruelest and on the other end the most reliable wound healer. It might take time to forget the past and to realize and accept the changes but ultimately one gets accustomed to it. However, this is a battle of your mind and heart in which the heart always loses because in the corporate world there is no place for people with the heart to survive and more formally to say this attitude lacks professionalism. And in the long run if one keeps oneself to be persisted all gets well.