Insecurities occur in a person’s life when there is something which is lacking, for example, I may be feeling insecure because of some deficiency in certain area which I am exposed to and the other people are not aware of that. It may also be closely correlated with the term fear, for example my fears about my life or regarding someone else may make me feel insecure.
The question lies here is that yes, we know that this phenomena is a reality and is generally found in every human being. Some people are better expressive and are able to exhibit them if these are materialistic. But mostly people suffer from them but they are not aware that either they are going right or wrong and also that what one can do if certain insecurities are prevalent in him or her or what he /she can do if they lie within the bracket of someone else’s insecurity bracket.
First thing that needs realization in this regard is the acceptance of the fact. That yes, this phenomena is normal as the other positive phenomena’s for example sense of achievement is an implied thing which everyone feels when they encounter with some sort of achievement in any field in which they are working for and is important for them. Secondly, the thing which is required the most is the solution, that how to deal with them because somehow we all know that these insecurities majorly affect our productivity and decline our performance level. They also affect our life at their full pace. No doubt the level of effect depends upon the type of insecurity which is generally faced by the people at different level but the fact is that it does affect. It may not affect us at level one, in which we are suppressing it and dealing with the people which lie in the category of incest and that may involve family, relatives, friends etc as a whole the people we know and recognize but it will certainly effect the society in its next level to come and with in the coming years of that person’s life.
The solution of the question that how to deal with these insecurities in the short term lies in our behaviors as for every event or situation that occurs we always have two ways to respond either positively or negatively so one must decide the better way which not only will save him but ultimately will benefit the society. In the long run, we must try to convert our insecurities in our strengths it is the only way to get rid of them. Otherwise these will cause a cannibal affect to occur and will lead us towards destruction. The conversion of one’s insecurities firstly demands the identification of the insecurity which a person is facing and then finding out the possible and convenient ways to overcome it. But over coming will not be the effective way, it is just a one step. We need to process the feelings of insecurities we need to channelize them so that the productive outcomes could be achieved.
