Life has never been so easy from
the start and shall not be easy the historical trends tell the bitter reality. When
certain decisions are made and they are the toughest and the earliest in one’s
life time, they contain a strong impact on one’s life. And the one who dares to
breach and enter in one’s life being an elder was you.
It seems that you were a kind of
test from divine. Sometimes we need a jolt; an emotional jolt. It is like a
wake up call or an intimation of a big dilemma expected to happen. To prepare
ourselves i believe.
I truly believe that elder’s
should not develop any emotional attachment with their kids or if they do they
should take care of themselves more after that. It feels very selfish on the
part of you to leave in such a way that there is no comeback. There is a need to be emotionally intelligent
in the situations which capture you emotionally otherwise can make you paralize later on.
Those who never had experienced
the feelings of affection and kindness should be emotionally intelligent in a
much greater degree as compared to the normal one’s. The intelligence demands
us to be aware of and control our emotional feeling and handle our
interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.
Thus in order to avoid the
conflict within oneself and the feelings of indifference where you are
experiencing strange feelings, unable to
identify what has gone wrong, one must be vigilant enough to stop such
affections and counter them in advance or should be ready to bear the traumas
until the life goes on.
