It is strange that how in order to maintain the social
order, the society treats the exceptional cases. The outliers are pushed,
pressed and assaulted in order to comply with the traditional norms and the
rules made by the society. It is alright that certain norms and the so called
values are there to control the lives of the ordinary people but one stick
cannot not be used to lead everyone.
It is also a bitter reality the way women are treated in
this world badly in general and in the third world countries in particular . Further, the situation in
so called Islamic countries for instance like Pakistan in particular is more exacerbated. The
culture that fabricates that we protect our women in the name of Islam is merely a patriarchal world.
There are parallel lives that an individual faces in his or her life time. Within a normal course of life then, there are the minorities who
even struggle to maintain their freedom. They even tend to survive those basic human rights that are bestowed to them by the prestigious organizations (I did not mention God because people may have different Gods but apparently majority of the countries listen to the United nations that is a common ground). Many so called eastern value holding women may not agree to me in the wake of supporting their men but it is a reality
that sexuality is not the only thing in life. Family making is good but not the
end of life. At the end of the day (at least that one day) we need to face
ourselves alone.
I wonder when I see the idleness among women. It is
important to understand that ignorance is not the answer to the questions that
life wants us to answer. It can benefit everyone but not to us only. We need to
take the responsibility of ourselves. Patience is good but the one we exercise
is not the one that is required from us by our lord. So we must stop manipulation.
